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Lesson 12/Chapter 12

When You Are Tired of Waiting: Giving Birth to Ishmael

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Symptom #1: Trying to help God

After waiting ten years to have a child, why did Sarai tell Abram to have a child through Hagar? (Gen. 16:1-3)

She wrongly believed the Lord had prevented her from having children. She knew that God had promised a child through Abram's body (15:4), but nothing was mentioned concerning Sarai's body. Sarai thought Abram could fulfill God's promise by using her maid Hagar to conceive the child, rather than conceiving the child herself.

Read Genesis 17:18-19. What does this reveal about Abram's and Sarai's decision to use Hagar?

Abraham (Abram) thought Ishmael was the fulfillment of God's promise. God told him Sarah (Sarai) would give birth to the promised child (Isaac). The descendents of Ishmael are still fighting the descendents of Isaac to this day. Abram and Sarai's attempt to help God through using Hagar created a huge problem for future generations.

Discuss the story about Henry and Mr. Smith. What are some things we can learn from this concerning trying to help God?

Henry assumed Mr. Smith was taking the washing machine into the house. His wrong assumption caused him to act contrary to Mr. Smith's desire. When we assume God desires something without asking him, we will find ourselves struggling against God's will.

Symptom #2: Overstepping the boundaries

What was Saul's excuse for not waiting for Samuel to offer the burnt offering? (1 Sam. 10:8, 13:8-12)

The people were scattering from him and the Philistines were assembling. Saul decided to not wait any longer for Samuel to offer the burnt offering, so he did it himself. Because Saul was not qualified to make the offering, he overstepped his boundaries as king.

In what ways do we overstep our boundaries and do what is forbidden?

Pre-marital sex, over-charging credit cards rather than waiting for God's provision, cheating on tests.

Because Saul overstepped his boundaries, what was his penalty? (1 Sam. 13:13-14)

God took the kingdom away from Saul and sought for someone else to be the ruler of Israel.

What does this teach us about the consequences of not waiting for God's timing?

God is aware of our disobedience and allows us to suffer the punishment of our wrongdoing.

Symptom #3: Becoming restless and irritable

What does restlessness and irritability reveal about our spiritual condition?

We become restless when we don't rest in the Lord. Our impatience puts us in danger of stepping out of God's will. It reveals we want God to match our timetables, rather than ours matching his.

Why Should We Wait on the Lord?

Reason #1: We may not be ready for what God has for us.

What would have been the consequences if Hannah started driving when she wanted?

She would have been in a wreck and possibly injured. The car was ready for Hannah, but she wasn't ready to drive the car.

What should a single person do while he or she is waiting to get married?

The single person should prepare himself or herself to be the best healthy, attractive, financially sound person that the future spouse deserves.

Reason #2: What God has planned for us may not be ready.

What does it mean, "There is an appointed time for everything?" (Eccles. 3:1)

God has a timing when things should occur. Some things might be right for us, but the timing isn't right. Although we may be ready to receive them, the things God has planned might not be ready for us.

To find God's timing, why must we "watch the conductor" instead of the other musicians?

Just like a musician watches the conductor for right timing, we must keep our eyes on God. If we watch the other "musicians" our timing will get off and chaos will occur.

Reason #3: God is using the waiting period to develop patience within us.

Using the illustration of lifting weights, explain how the quality of patience can make life easier for us.

Patience increases our ability to stand up under pressure. Once we have lifted 150 pounds, lifting any weight under 150 pounds is no longer be difficult. Every trial has a certain "weight" and patience is the muscle that lifts the weight. As we grow in patience, the weight of the trial doesn't have the effect upon us it once had.

Reason #4: God wants to do a greater miracle for us.

What did Jesus do when he heard that Lazarus was sick? (John 11:6)

He didn't run to Bethany, but waited two days longer in the place where he was.

When Jesus arrived in Bethany, why was Martha upset at Jesus? (John 11:21)

Martha was disappointed and angry because she thought Jesus was late.

How do you normally react when God doesn't perform according to your schedule?

We usually get angry with God because we don't understand why he doesn't work according to our schedule.

Although Mary and Martha were not aware of the reason, why did Jesus delay his coming to Bethany? (John 11:4-6, 11-15)

He wanted Lazarus to be dead for four days so there was no doubt he had died (v.17).

Compare Martha and Mary's thoughts with Jesus' thoughts.

Martha and Mary thought Jesus made a mistake by not healing Lazarus. Jesus wanted to perform a greater miracle by raising Lazarus from the dead.

What can we learn from this?

Many times God delays things because he wants to do a greater miracle for us.

How Do We Wait on the Lord?

Using Psalm 37:3-7 as a prescription for waiting, write a brief description of the four things we must do while waiting.

Trust in the Lord Have confidence in God, knowing that he is in control

Delight yourself in the Lord Keep your attitude right by finding your pleasure in him

Commit your way to the Lord Keep doing things the way that God wants them done

Rest in the Lord Cease from worrying, knowing that God will provide in his timing_